Nobody says a Taoist has to look homely while practicing the Tao. In fact, we Tao Babes unashamedly stick to our lipstick ways and our beauty regiment, even as we follow the broad and easy path, and we do it with the understanding that it is part of what makes us Tao Babes. We find ways to cultivate the Tao, and still look mighty good while doing it.
Still… I must admit that at times, I feel a bit guilty. I look around me at all those wonderful selfless Taoists who are willing to forgo all the physical wants, put on a plain simple robe, climb a mountain, sit under a banyan tree, and meditate for years. I certainly could not do that. I would miss my hair stylist too much. My blonde hair would get dark roots!
All kidding aside, it is true that the I Ching does not often place importance on outer beauty and grace. In fact, it is usually the inner essence that Taoists are taught to observe and place great importance on. The weightiest decisions should be made based upon more profound principles and morals. It should not be based upon the outer appearance or the pomp and ceremonies that surround a situation.
But what if the choices are not so profound? What if the choices that we are required to make are not life and death, not immediately important to our lives? What if it the choices that are before us are smaller concerns?
Let it never be said that the I Ching does not value beauty. Tao Babes get a guilt-free hexagram, at last. When the question is of lesser importance, the external beauty is not only allowed to be taken into consideration, but also actively encouraged! This is shown in hexagram #22 – Pi – Grace/Adornment.
Grace is defined as Seemingly effortless beauty or charm of movement, form, or proportion; a characteristic or quality pleasing for its charm or refinement. Sounds like the definition of aTao Babe, n’est ce pas?
Hexagram #22 – Pi – Grace
Grace has success
In small matters
It is favorable to undertake something.
Fire at the foot of the mountain:
The image of Grace
Thus does the superior man proceed
When clearing up current affairs.
But he dare not decide controversial issues in this way.
With all choices being equal, we are given the chance to indulge in the external, luxuriate in the outer pomp and ceremony, we are given the liberties to do it the Tao Babe way. We see the prettiest thing or the thing that smells the nicest, sound the prettiest, and we choose that which pleases us the most.
So, when hexagram 22 comes along, go ahead and indulge yourselves, Tao Babes. Pick the prettiest one of the bunch. Wear the most lavish dress, the highest heels, put on the silkiest of stockings, choose the most expensive perfume, and use the deepest, darkest red lipstick you have. When Hexagram 22 is given to you, go for what pleases your senses, and live life to the fullest.